Si te duele, ahí no es : Una guía para personas monógamas y poliamororosas que quieren amar éticamente

Jaime Gama dismantles the beliefs surrounding romantic love and proposes a radically honest approach to human relationships. Far from imposing a single path, "If It Hurts, It's Not There" invites you to question preconceived notions and create bonds tailored to your needs, based on your values ​​and values. From the pillars of ethical relationships and jealousy seen as an ally, to the importance of avoiding rules and reaching flexible agreements, in these pages you will find profound reflections and practical tools that can help you break patterns, communicate more assertively, and establish firm but loving boundaries to build healthier and more authentic connections. This is not a book about polyamory or monogamy, but about the freedom to choose how to love. Do you dare to question everything and find your own path? Known on social media as Gotitas de Poliamor (Little Drops of Polyamory), Jaime Gama is a pioneering voice in the conversation about ethical and non-monogamous relationships in the Spanish-speaking world. With a constantly growing digital community, he shares his experience and knowledge in a close and empathetic way with more than one and a half million people.