Aprende a discutir mejor : Claves psicológicas para manejar con éxito los conflictos

We were taught to look inward to heal, as if discomfort were a personal rift, a private wound; when, in reality, it almost always stems from friction, from misunderstanding, from that poorly spoken or poorly heard word that leaves a silence or tension between two people. And it is precisely there that the seed of arguments is sown. This book begins with a certainty: most human suffering is social, not individual. From what we call the Psychology of Interaction, "Learn to Argue Better" invites us to recognize that, deep down, we continue to act like primitive beings, trying to outlive others and how culture shapes what we feel and influences how we manage relationships. We spend half our lives trying to defend at all costs the identity we believe we have, forgetting that it is something living and influenced by context. And that isolates us and puts us at odds with others and with ourselves. This book is also an invitation to understand how the words we use in these discussions are laden with centuries of defense and conflict, and how we can reprogram that legacy to speak and live our relationships and our lives from a different perspective.